On The Hands Of A Conman

Ever been coned, ever got yourself on the hands of fraudsters, sweettalkers what experience do you have now from then.

I have been tricked by conmen not once not twice, many times.

Am always a humble, kind and emphatic person ready to help at all times, when someone approaches me for help I always become agitated to help the person and I forget to take care and not to believe everybody

At this point in time the reasoning in me gets deactivated, I become blind in seeing realities of truth and dances into the tune of lies, then the conmen gets the better of me and uses me properly.

The fascinating thing about all this experience is immediately you are done, you always realize and remember every development,how simple it was to get out of the trap, you feel so stupid, it gives you stress and a whole junk of bitterness.

Always when you start a conversation with any conmen, there is a background voice that tells and informs you of the end result. If only we could listen to that voice, No dubious ways will ever prosper in our in our daily endeavors.

Any experience in this? When did you realize? What did you do? How often has it happened to you? What measures can you put in your life to avoid falling short of conmen?

2 responses to “On The Hands Of A Conman”

  1. Thank you for writing about this.

    Yes. I too have been conned over and over, because I always see the best in people. I see a need and I want to fill it, and I genuinely want to help others. I too feel stupid and discouraged when it turns out they lied to me, stole from me, or otherwise took advantage of my gullibility. Putting my energy into loving God dissolves my bitterness over con men deceiving me and using me, and eases my anguish over my stupidity for falling into the snares of con men.

    I do not want to be suspicious of others because many people are without guile, without intent to hurt, and genuinely need a helping hand. And it is a hellish place to live, constantly wondering if someone is being deceitful. Daily I ask God to let me see people as they are without my bitterness in past mistakes blinding me, and to lend me His strength to keep trying to do right by others despite my bad experiences.

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    1. It takes a strong heart of endurance and resilience to do what you are doing. Bravo!🙏

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